1 /5 Beth Cunningham: Im fairly disappointed in my sons appointment today (May 21st, 2024). It was going well at first... My son was doing good, the dental assistant was patient with my son and she didnt say a word about me holding my sons hand to comfort him, however, the "vibes" felt really off.. it felt very judgemental in the back room. My son said prior to going in "mommy, I dont like the dentist. I dont want to go" I only enforced it because of kindergarten requirements. The last time we were here, before today, it went pretty good. Then, Dr. Malcolm walked in and I was holding my sons hands because he was SCARED! He told my son "let go of your moms hand, place them on your stomach, you dont need to hold her hand." Who does he think he is telling my son that he cant hold his moms hand?! He is FIVE. If he wants to hold my hand for comfort, he can. Ill be damned if that ever happens again. But it wont, because I will never be back with my kids.
Oh, and let me not forget, he was asking me about doing X-rays for my son, typically I would say yes because I know they need to be done eventually, but I couldnt. My son was clearly overwhelmed and scared. But I was not about to let that man take X-rays over my son especially if he wouldnt allow him to hold my hand. He then, tried to change my mind and not being respectful at all. I explained to him "as his mother, I will protect my son. I can clearly see that he is overwhelmed and scared, so no, that will not happen today." But he still tried to change my mind, luckily he just shut up after a few times of trying to convince me. If he wouldve "allowed" my son to hold my hand while just looking at his teeth, then sure he couldve done X-rays, but the pure disrespect from him and the judgemental vibes from his staff, I was absolutely not going to make my son stay there any longer than needed.
I look forward to finding a new dentist with more respect for the parents and their YOUNG children.